Life's Little Helper

Dear Confused

Sometimes, when people are insecure or jealous they react on that and make fun of other people. Maybe they hurt you and make fun of you because your a really nice person and you seem like an easy target. However, when they do hurt you don't retalliate or talk back to them in any way, just ignore them, that shows that they don't get to you and they will move on. I know that you want to know why but that won't really fix the problem. If this goes on tell an adult, I know it might seem childish and like your snitching but the truth is your not. When you need help, ask for help. All we can do in situations like these is just say, "Screw you" and move on. They probably do tease you because you are really nice and lovable. If it helps read the book, "Stargirl" by Jerry Spinelli. She has almost has the same situation as you. I know it may sound weird to subscribe a book for help but sometimes in some situations the wierdest things help. Don't worry, what goes around, comes around.

From,

Your Life's Little Helper

Dear DD (Since I don't know your name I'll use your initials)

I know how it feels being in a crush, and to be truthful sometimes you just can't go over it, until you meet the guy you are actually suppose to be with and you fall in love with. From what you have told me this guy doesn't deserve your love or effort. And to be truthful I don't think you two are meant to be, he is a jerk and your the beauty, not a really good mix. We can always try to make up excuses for people, but for this fellow there is no excuse for his behavior. His ignoring you already shows signs of not being interested and from what you tell me you already know that. I know me telling you this will hurt maybe and I don't expect you for him to get over him just like that but what you must realize are there are so many more kind men out there who would be lucky to have you. Remember if this guy has hurt you before, it's most likely he will hurt you again.

From,

Your life's little helper

P.S. You don't write too much, you write just enough

Dear Hopeless

What you need to do is calm down about this situation. Don't judge your sister, make sure you know why she didn't want to go back. It could be possible that what they wanted her to do was something terrible and even something you wouldn't even agree with. Make sure you talk to her before you get mad. And always remember she is your sister, she is your family.